Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Attempt #1

Not too long after my best friend got married, I was telling a colleague over lunch about my dream to “one day” open a Bed & Breakfast.

She gave the standard, “You should – you’d be so good at that!” response, and then took it one step further. She told me about an essay writing contest where the prize was a B&B and Country Inn in Maine.

I entered that contest.

Remember how I said, “It all started when my best friend was living in England…” (if not read about it in my first blog post)

Well, as true as that it, it is also true that you could say it all started when I was six, living next door to a completely different best friend.

Even though I didn’t win the essay contest (spoiler alert!) entering was still probably the first concrete step I took – really putting effort, energy, and money into the universe in pursuit of this dream of mine.

Here’s the essay I submitted (it had a 200 word limit):

“Breakfast is served!” my six-year-old self announced once again, carrying a tray of food into my parents' bedroom.
From those humble beginnings came a lifelong pursuit of hospitality. My early desire to serve others, paired with a love of organization and efficiency, has shaped my personal and professional decisions over the years. My professional experiences in hospitality and logistics complement my genuine love of people and prepare me well to own and run a Country Inn.
Perhaps the most important lessons I’ve learned are how to be willing to do what it takes to make things run smoothly (no task is too small to be done with care!) and how important it is to surround yourself with people who have the same commitment to excellence.
I want to own and operate the Country Inn so I can apply these life lessons and touch people's lives, bring a smile after a long drive, serve hungry travelers a worthy meal, and give the gift of reprieve to all who come – be their stay short or long.

Friday, November 25, 2016

Listening to a Niggle

You know those things that niggle at the back of your brain that just won’t go away? That’s what the idea of running a Bed & Breakfast has been for me.

It all started when my best friend was living in England for Graduate School, and I went out to visit. We (okay, really she!) planned a wonderful, self-guided Jane Austen tour. She found us places to stay along the way, including several Bed & Breakfasts (to cut down on our food costs/ the need to carry food around) and I fell in love.

“Wouldn’t it be great to welcome people from all over the world into your home?” I asked on one of our walks through the countryside (the same exact fields that Jane Austen walked, I must add :) “Plus, it combines so many things I love – cooking, scheduling/organizing, putting a house in order, meeting people and learning their stories – and allows me to be a homebody, but not isolated!”

We made an agreement that if we were both 40 and not married, we’d open a B&B together, likely in New England.

Years passed, and from time-to-time that niggle would come back, “What if I really did open a B&B?” I'd think.

Every time I shared this dream of mine with friends, they would light up: “Oh, you’d be so good at that!” They almost universally exclaimed, “You should do it!”

Well, I’m not 40 yet, and my best friend got married.

I was, and still am, so happy for her! But my joy for her didn’t stop a niggle in the back of my mind that said, “Well, there goes your chance to run a B&B.”

But did it?

No. There was no reason that I couldn’t still pursue that dream!

And really, there was no reason I couldn’t do so sooner than later.